Refactor IDE client state management, improve user-facing error messages, and add logging of connection events (#5591)

Co-authored-by: matt korwel <matt.korwel@gmail.com>

packages/core/src/telemetry/telemetry.test.ts

@@ -12,7 +12,6 @@ import {
 } from './sdk.js';
 import { Config } from '../config/config.js';
 import { NodeSDK } from '@opentelemetry/sdk-node';
-import { IdeClient } from '../ide/ide-client.js';
 
 vi.mock('@opentelemetry/sdk-node');
 vi.mock('../config/config.js');
@@ -30,7 +29,6 @@ describe('telemetry', () => {
       targetDir: '/test/dir',
       debugMode: false,
       cwd: '/test/dir',
-      ideClient: IdeClient.getInstance(false),
     });
     vi.spyOn(mockConfig, 'getTelemetryEnabled').mockReturnValue(true);
     vi.spyOn(mockConfig, 'getTelemetryOtlpEndpoint').mockReturnValue(